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    Gender

    I hadn't run into anybody that didn't at that point and honestly couldn't see a reason why someone would play as the guy character if they're a girl (though that may have been related to my "girls rule!" stance at the time - all the Pokémon I caught had to be female and for the first few years...
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    do you have nothing better to do than criticize my thoughts on the subject seriously wtf, why was that necessary
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    If I were outside the gender binary, what I saw on my exam registration this morning would have legitimately bothered me! Whether or not it was relevant is not the point. It is the fact that they are asking for that detail of my sex/gender (for God knows what reason) and I am not allowed to...
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    yay bump after a month or something but something happened this morning which i think is relevant so I was filling out forms for my AP testing in a week and they ask you all these questions about yourself like name (obv), address, date of birth, etc and two of the wordings of the questions...
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    Hate to double post but I have a question/food for thought that people might not have seen had I edited There was a debate going on on another forum I'm part of about abortion. It was going on as normal abortion-related debates do, when suddenly someone stepped in and said, "Can we please not...
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    IF I COULD I WOULD i get up at 5:30 am though and have issues getting to sleep most nights ; ; and even then on weekends my body's like "haha screw you you're getting up before 7." so i never get a good sleep and yeah the thing is i have heard some people talking about which sex-related nouns...
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    Gender

    Exactly which is why i made a point to ask about which noun to use for non-binary people
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    Well, no, of course not. It was just used for the sake of an example of how I might have a conflict between pronoun and noun, written in the span of two sentences so I didn't have to create an entire conversation that includes both the noun and the discussion of alternative pronouns that was...
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    Gender

    I think I might just go around asking everyone new I meet "What kind of pronouns do you use?" If I ask a cis person that and they're confused I get to explain why I think it's important that people do that instead of just assuming (possibly encouraging the cis person to do the same) and if I ask...
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    Gender

    I mentioned that I worded that wrongly. This wasn't the impression I was trying to get across - hell, I don't follow all girl stereotypes (you mentioned "girls like romantic comedies" as a stereotype, hell if I fit that). Sorry about the wrong implications. Nah, it's fine. Makes perfect...
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    Gender

    yeah fair. it was just a thought. idk. ... point taken. i suppose i worded that badly.
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    Okay, that's fair. Thanks for explaining. Like I said - issues with putting myself in other people's shoes. ^^;
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    Cirrus: I didn't mean for it to come off like me being like "Olol I'll be trans for an experiment!" - it's more like I want to take a survey about society's opinions on gender identity and such and raise awareness and I figure the results might be more effective if I presented as trans than if I...
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    Gender

    I had this idea for a lifelong 'experiment' of sorts wherein I would, upon graduating from college and entering the real world, promptly introduce myself to people by telling them that I go with the pronouns ze, zer, zem rather than female pronouns. In reality I identify as female and go by...
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